Hello Wonderful Steppers <3
I’m so grateful you’re taking some time to invest in yourself and take your First Step in this moment of your Journey. You are absolutely Beautiful and amazing, and I love all of you.
I’m not a Guru, nor do I ever want to be one or thought of one. I’m just a observer on my path just like everyone else… If your looking for a Guru, look no further then inside…
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As I said in my previous blogs, I’m not here to help you or save you, If you help yourself, Great you did it, and if you hurt your self, Great you did it. You think people support you, they don’t. I’ll give you a quick example.
I had a friend who was doing a workshop on psychology and in the work shop one of the people asked said they didn’t feel they were getting the support from their superior, because they never came by to visit or give thanks or any feed back. My friend knew their superior and said let’s do a role play. I’ll play the roll of your superior and said to them “The reason I never come by and talk to you is that things are going so well that I never have the need to.”
My friend said to them “Ok just step out of the room, for a minute” and once out of the room he turned to the others in the workshop and said ” I’m still playing the role of the supervisor. He’s really done such a bad job of managing his department that I can stand to go by and see. If I say anything to him, he would be even harder on the staff under him and we are going to be replacing him in about 6 months. We are just training another person to take over and move him to different position.”
Now my friend brings him back in and asks “How do you feel? Do you feel supported” and he says “yes, I feel supported”
Who is supporting him?
Our personal reality is often an illusion we create, the feelings we think are created by others are only an illusion we create ourselves based on what others say and do to us, and if it based on what they say, be careful, because what they may or may not be true or accurate.
People don’t support you, you chose to believe they support you. You want to change your personal reality, you have to change your personality and how you think.
As I said before waking up is painful. the first step to awareness or waking up is to be honest with yourself that you don’t want to wake up, you don’t want to be happy, that is unconditionally happy. I’ll be happy if I’m supported, or I get this or that.
We can’t conceive that we can be happy with out them. We been programmed/brainwashed/taught that we can’t be happy without this or that. When either I or you challenge yourself on this programming your will feel resistance and pain. Waking up is a challenge and that is why I said the wise Guru will never attempt to wake anyone up. I’m not going to do it. no way.
It’s like the story of the guy who walks into a bar, sits down, and sees this another guy from work with a banana in his ear – a banana in his ear! And he thinks, “I wonder if I should say anything to him. No, it’s none of my business”. But after having a drink or two he can’t resist, he says to the Guy, “Excuse me, why do you’ve a banana in your ear”. The Guy says, “What”? he repeats, “You’ve got a banana in your ear. “Again the Guy says, “What was that”? “You’ve got a banana in your ear!” the Friend shouts. “Talk louder”, the friend says, “I’ve got a banana in my ear!”
Ok we all heard that one many times, but the truth is there, I can’t wake you up all I can do is show you your illusions and false hoods that I have as well. Only through self awareness and observation can we really wake up.
In the next post I will get into this more as we explore who we really are… because if you been following Jim Carey in the last year or so, you begin to see we are not the roles we play and even deeper not what we think we are. It gets stranger and it is stranger than you think, and stranger then you can think, and this frightens most people. Facing our fears is pain full so unless you pull that banana out of your ear you won’t be waking up anytime soon!!!
Buckle up Dorothy cause Kansas is about to go by by…
In Gratitude, I wish you awareness of Peace, Love, Great Health, and Abundance there in you, Always,